A British Gurkha soldier remembers death of uncle 25 years on

Kathmandu- The British Army, 2nd Battalion Royal Gurkha Rifles has held a moving service of remembrance in Kosovo, commemorating the first British soldiers who paid the ultimate sacrifice in the conflict.

It was to be a poignant moment of personal reflection for one very proud serving Gurkha soldier as it rekindled childhood memories of his family’s tragedy, the British Army stated in a press release. “In honour and gratitude for your sacrifice, we remember your courage and dedication. From all ranks of the 2nd Battalion Royal Gurkha Rifles,” these were the words that were written upon the wreath laid by Corporal Bishwraj Rai during a ceremony held in the Negrovce region of Kosovo commemorating the death of his uncle, Staff Sergeant Balaram Rai.

Balaram, along with Lieutenant Gareth Evans, were the first British soldiers to pay with their lives at the onset of British peacekeeping operations during the Kosovo crisis back in 1999. Corporal Bishwraj Rai was serving with Tamandu Company, 2nd Battalion Royal Gurkha Rifles in Kosovo as part of the British Army’s Strategic Reserve Force, supporting the NATO mission, KFOR (Kosovo Force) a legacy of the conflict 25 years ago whose purpose today is to maintain a safe and secure environment to enable freedom of movement throughout the region.

In June of 1999, Staff Sergeant Balaram Rai and Lieutenant Gareth Evans members of 69 Gurkha Field Squadron, Queen’s Gurkha Engineers were killed as they attempted to remove unexploded ordnance (UXO) from the village school at Orlate in Kosovo’s Negrovce region about 22 kilometres west of the Pristina. It was a tragedy that deeply affected Balaram Rai’s family as his nephew, then only 9-years-old reflected: “At the time we were all living together as one family, my auntie, uncle, and whole family.

Then we heard the news of the incident – my uncle and one of the troop commanders both lost their lives while clearing the UXO. They were trying to help the school by getting rid of all the explosive devices when one detonated. It was a very sad moment for me as he was the reason I wanted to join the British Army Gurkhas. From that moment I have heard about this country a lot and ever since I joined the Army my wishes have been to come here and finally, I have got here with my regiment, 2 RGR.

It was very emotional when I landed in this country as this is where my uncle lost his life. I feel proud as well, and I can remember him by bringing a flower and laying a wreath at the place where he died.”